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These are all questions that they’re wondering in their head, and the way to get those answers without directly asking you, is to go through social media. Also, you’re going to hear or see another uptick in hoping that they’re going to respond to their text messages.
So, you may start to see a flood of text messages coming in towards the end of the no contact rule as well. And those are the five stages that are most common with how your ex is going to feel after a breakup.
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Hey there, So my ex who I was with for close to a yr was cheating and lying to me. I had finally had enough and stopped answering calls and texts Oct 7 without warning. Nov 23rd he reaches out to me telling me he misses me and thinks about me and that it is time we talk.. I, however don’t truly believe this and just respond with ok. After that I don’t hear from him. A week goes by and on Dec 3rd he reaches out again. This time asking if I miss him yet. Which I replied “wow” because in my head that isn’t a way to start a conversation off let alone reconcile. Well I guess that must have upset him because then I’m riddled with nasty text messages about how he never liked me and I’m weird, and unattractive. Then followed by videos with him and other females and screenshots of conversations with other women. I’m completely thrown off because I broke it off with him in Oct and havent bothered this man. So my question is what do I do from here. How do you handle a situation like this. Because I have never had this type of response from a ex.
Very toxic response especially when he was the one cheating, however did you tell him that you knew? I would say that you are better off not responding to him going forward if you have no intentions of taking him back.
Hey He dumped me on Facebook without in person on . We were different people, he writes on Facebook messager. He wanted me to date someone better than him. It’s painful. He wants me to be his friend. I turned him down the friend offer. I decided to put no contact on Facebook, and mobile. It has a month and 3 weeks. I haven’t seen him since Saturday . We meet at his friends but we were on zoosk online meet. First meet was very interesting and nice. He hopes for me to reply back, but I did. But he didn’t get to know me enough. I felt that he wasn’t interested in me. We act together ( we kissed each other) and we were nervous. We slept each other. Sex was great, but one missing one was’ sense of humour’. He has spark when I first meet him. He was gentleman and sweet. Now he stopped affection and kiss me. He acts like he’s a friend to me. He stopped take interest in me. I know it’s our relationship is in trouble. I won’t forgive him for the connection, conversation and comfortable with me was gone! We shared our plans and future together when we first meet. Something changed him.
Hi I was seeing someone for about a month. I know it seems crazy to ask this question. I’m in my mid 40s and he’s in his early 50s. I can honestly say I have never felt the connection we had in all of my life. I know he felt that there was an amazing connection as well. We talked for hours enlace (avg. 3-5 a day) and when we would see each other it was the same. He’s busy with his career and I guess I was wanting more. I feel I pushed him away as he broke up with me. Will the no contact rule work when it was such a short period of time? Will he come back?